The notes shown below were written by Anja one evening during the three months she lived with me between August and November, 2000. No need for too much imagination to guess what was at the end of this exciting little "treasure hunt" which she had organised for my entertainment and pleasure (and her own, of course!). Needless to say, dinner that evening was postponed for quite some time until certain other appetites had been satisfied for both of us... When I asked Anja by phone, in July of 2001, during my visit to Germany, how she could so easily forget the closeness which our many love-making sessions had brought, I was told: "It is easy for me...After all, it is something one does in such circumstances..." I leave it to the judgement of the reader to decide what kind of person might be capable of such a cynical and heartless comment... "Remember, Narcissists like to project an image. For them sex is not associated with love, it is a game, a tool to seduce, to obtain something from you. They want you to become their sexual slave. For them sex is not a deepening of the relationship, it is not a means of communication, because the Narcissist does not want you to see the truth. They can never be weak; they can never let go or risk losing control. Real sex involves voluntary and mutual loss of control; perhaps even falling in love." (From an article on Narcissistic Personality Disorder) Important Note and Disclaimer: The material contained herein is presented for the purpose of information only, and should be considered as such. Part of the aforesaid material is compiled from personal experience, and some is based on the voluntary professional opinion of a third party with qualification and expertise in the field of psychology. No animosity, grievance or accusation against any person or persons should be taken as being expressed, implied, or otherwise intended from the content of this web site.